What your husband wants but won’t say:
- He wants sex. Not sometimes - often. Every day if possible. For him, sex is love. It’s how he feels wanted, needed, and deeply connected. It’s not just physical - it’s emotional.
- He wants to be respected. Don’t mock or belittle him. Don’t compare him with others. Admire him.
- Celebrate his wins. He wants to hear, “I’m proud of you, babe.”
- He wants to be informed - where you are, what you spend, what debts exist. He wants to feel trusted and included in every family decision. He doesn’t want to be left in the dark.
- He doesn't want his wife flirting, receiving gifts, or going on dates with other men. It crushes him. Be loyal. Be private. Don’t discuss family matters outside. Be his safe place.
- He wants to lead. To feel like the head of his home. Welcome him with a kiss. Serve a hot meal. Smile. A happy wife melts his heart. That’s love to him.
Tomorrow, I’m turning to the men - I’ll tell them what your heart, body, and soul truly crave.
Dr. K. N. Jacob